I think it's good that you shared - it's the first step towards getting over your pain. You should never feel stupid for letting us in on what's bothering you - we're here to help. [img]graemlins/heart.gif[/img] If it makes you feel any better, it sounds like your grandma and my grandfather were raised in a very similar manner. Its hard to accept that the people we love and look up to aren't perfect. The important thing is that you know what you want, and that you act on your convictions. You get that Addy! [img]biggrin.gif[/img]

- Becca